Dr. Brain Biddulph, Johannesburg, South Africa
As a medical doctor for over 25 years, I've needed to attend many secular marriage courses and as a Christian I've attended several Christian Marriage Seminars.  All had value, but my wife and I couldn't wait to get back to hear each session of this outstanding 5 part seminar.  It was undoubtedly the best Marriage Seminar we've ever attended - so good that I told Smiley that somehow this course should be taught in every Christian church.  The Monday night session on 'The Spirituality of Sex in the Marriage' was tastefully, humorously and scripturally done.  Medically it was 100% accurate and is so desperately needed to be taught in the church - we doctors know the magnitude of the dysfunction in this area.

Pastor Allan Bagg, Cape Town, South Africa
Smiley, our members thoroughly enjoyed and were greatly blessed and enriched by your outstanding Marriage Seminar.  Without hesitation I highly recommend this course to every Pastor.  The fruit of Smiley's transformed marriage will produce after it's kind as it did in our church.

Pastor Stephen Weir, Johannesburg, South Africa
This seminar was loaded with revelation knowledge, beginning to end - no hype.  As a Pastor for over 20 years, I've been looking for practical materials to give to couples to improve their marriages and to singles preparing for marriage - my search is over.  Our 20 full time Pastors now have the perfect tool to put into the hands of those with marriage challenges.  Thank you for your excellence of ministry.  We were all truly encouraged.  It was the best marriage seminar my wife and I have yet attended.

1.    Never both be angry at the same time.
2.    Never yell at each other unless the house is on fire.
3.    If one of you has to win an argument, let it be your mate.
4.    It takes two to make a quarrel, and the one in the wrong is the one who does the most talking.
5.    Never bring up mistakes of the past.
6.    When you have done something wrong, be ready to admit it and ask for forgiveness.
7.    Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.
8.    If you have to point out a flaw, do it lovingly.
9.    Neglect the whole world rather than each other.
10.  At least once a day try to say one kind or complimentary thing to your life's partner.

1.    Smile - it's far more powerful than you could ever imagine!
2.    Be the first to say a warm "Hello".
3.    Compliment three people everyday.
4.    Live beneath your means - no marriage needs undue financial pressure.
5.    Forget the Jones's.
6.    Treat everyone as you want to be treated.
7.    Never give up on anybody - God specializes in impossible cases.
8.    Remember someone's name.
9.    Pray not for things, but for wisdom and courage.
10.  Be tough-minded, but tender hearted.
11.  Go out of your way to perform daily acts of kindness.
12.  Don't forget that a person's greatest needs are to be made to FEEL really appreciated and of great worth.
13.  Be a person of integrity - ALWAYS keep your word.
14.  Learn to show cheerfulness even when you don't feel it.
15.  Remember that overnight success usually takes 15 years.
16.  Leave everything better than you found it.
17.  Remember that WINNERS know and work their Key Result Areas which LOSERS struggle to get round to.
18.  Wherever you arrive, let the first thing you say brighten everyone's day.
19.  Don't rain on other peoples parades - be truly happy for their success.
20.  Never miss an opportunity to tell other people how much you love them.